Sunday, September 26, 2010

Day 15 - Love Dare - Love is Honorable

Dare:
Choose a way to honor and respect David in a way I don't normally.

I try to show honor to David. That is extremely important to David, but one thing hit me in the devotion for today. I don't always give him my full attention when he's talking to me, especially when I have a computer or my iPhone in front of me. I need to turn these off and look at him when he's talking to me. I think I always thought that I'm multi-tasking, but he probably views it as ignoring him. Okay, he comes before my computer.

Results:
Okay, it was hard, but I didn't do phone things in the car. I paid full attention to David. You know, I'm feeling a difference in our relationship. I don't feel like David is as irritated with me as he usually is. Things seem calmer. And I haven't changed him - I can't change him - I only have control over myself, so it must be me. I'm learning to control my reactions.

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